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Comments on Profile Post by daniel_gudman

  1. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    You know, watching the game with half an eye, I had dinner and some beers, just a night out
    Nov 17, 2017
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  2. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    And just when I was about to cash out and leave
    Nov 17, 2017
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  3. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    This woman comes in and sits down next to me.
    Nov 17, 2017
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  4. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    This was like the second or third bar she'd been to that night (not that I can criticize that, it was number two for me).
    Nov 17, 2017
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  5. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    And I guess she'd run into these college kids, and they gave her a hard time about her age (42 or 43 I think based on what she told me about herself). And she had just moved to town I guess and was pretty lonely (she didn't care me out and say it, but it wasn't hard to figure out).
    Nov 17, 2017
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  6. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    So she really just wanted someone to listen to her, you know, and tell her that she's doing all right, things will be okay.
    Nov 17, 2017
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  7. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    And she was getting kinda flirty, and I guess she was pretty cute, but....
    Nov 17, 2017
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  8. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    I mean, when I'm hearing somebody out cuz they just need somebody to listen, I'm not attracted to that.
    Nov 17, 2017
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  9. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    It's been a long, long time since I've been hit on. It was kinda validating in a sense,
    Nov 17, 2017
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  10. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    But mostly I was like but all I could think was "uh, interacting with you is emotionally draining"
    Nov 17, 2017
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  11. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    And I guess I'm just not sure how to feel, about how that's what I felt.
    Nov 17, 2017
  12. pepperjack
    pepperjack
    My guess is it means you're human, rather than some sort of saint. My recommendation is to feel okay about feeling that way.
    Nov 17, 2017
  13. pepperjack
    pepperjack
    And maybe think about what you *did*, and whether you're satisfied with your *behavior.* And, if you're not, think about what you would like to have done differently, and plan how to react differently the next time you have a chance.
    Nov 17, 2017
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  14. pepperjack
    pepperjack
    But feeling that way? You don't have control over that. You're gonna feel how you're gonna feel. If you're gonna feel bad about something, feel bad about how you act on your feelings, not about how you felt in the first place.
    Nov 17, 2017
  15. pepperjack
    pepperjack
    That's my opinion, anyway. I'm sure others will have their own takes on things.
    Nov 17, 2017
  16. Valette-Serafina
    Valette-Serafina
    Returning attraction is not obligatory. One should be true to their emotions.
    Nov 17, 2017
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  17. daniel_gudman
    daniel_gudman
    It's not like i felt guilty; more like... I had no idea what to do, I guess?
    Nov 18, 2017