I need advice on what to do under a really shitty situation I'm having

What do I do after that though? I feel like I should do something but... just live off of rice and rationed pizza until she comes back or I'm given the bad news?

I'll wait for more suggestions before calling the cops.

Thank you for your advice.

She's had some bad run-ins with the police though, she's not a criminal or anything unless insulting people because you think they're spying on you and fucking with you is a crime.

 

Ask their family anyway for help.

I'm asian, and no matter how I (we?) dislike our black sheep, we'll still help 'em. Especially in dire situation like this.

 

...I'm confused, the police officer's family members?

Also, I've never called the police in my entire life, I get that I should report that my mother never came back yesterday, that she has no phone, and that I don't remember the license plate to her newer car. But what else should I say? The address to my apartment? Where she got her car from?(which I don't know)

What do people usually say when calling the police, would appreciate it if you dealt with south korean police officers as well.

 

Your mother's family members I assume.

 

If you're talking about coming into contact with my mother's through the police than you can forget it, her mother and siblings fucked her out of grandpa's inheritance. Grandma's dead now, but Uncle actually came to our apartment years ago to talk about it and wrestled mom to the ground, I just hid under a bed. I don't even know if aunt is safe, I don't think she likes us either, but there was this one time that I think mom had a friendly talk over the phone.

I don't even know how my dad's folks will take it.

 

Do you know your relatives' phone numbers so you can ask them directly over the phone?

 

The phone has a phone book but I don't even know my relatives names, none of them. There's one that has the same family name as mom's but I'm afraid that might be somebody else.

 

Try it anyway. What have you got to lose?
Or call police, too.

 

To reiterate what I said, is there anything else I should report other than my mom's disappearance, that I have her phone, and that I don't know her newer car's license plate number. Previous experience with South Korean police would be nice, though I'll take what I can get.

This would be the first time I can remember calling the police on purpose.

 

Don't mention you get the idea by asking random stranger on internet, I guess?

But sure, that seems good enough.

 

Yes, but I'm also asking what I assume to be much more experienced individuals on what I should say to the cops so that I don't get a panic attack when I can't tell him my social security number or something.

Also my Uncle is horrible. Still not sure about my aunt though.

Would it really be that easy? I'm sorry if it seems like I'm actively avoiding talking to them but as far as I know, they know who my mom is, and not in the good way.

A bit nervous right now, sorry. three people already came and I'm not sure if I should wait a bit more calling. But if the best option really is just calling the cops right now I'll do it.

 

It's not any better on the inside, either. Just be proud you're not an idiot like I am.

 

You don't carry any identification on you?

 

Lazy man-child that lets his mom do the hard work, I don't even know where the document that its typed on is, mom said it was stolen at one point but I don't know if she was talking about mine or hers. They can't just look it up or something?

Would I be correct in assuming nobody here so far has made an emergency report or anything to the police, seeing as nobodies mentioned it?

I've got my mom's phone in front of me, if anyone would like to say anything before I make a call I'd appreciate it. Also my Korean isn't that great, though it's good enough to talk to other people, so this'll be fun.

EDIT: Calling now.

 

Well in my case, it's just something that never came up. I've never been in such a situation that required me to call the police.

They probably have your identification somewhere if you tell them your name. The police I mean.

 

I did it.

Not sure why they'd send an officer to where I live though, I don't even remember what she was wearing other than a black skirt.

EDIT: They expected me to know my mother's social security number, as well as mine.
Don't really feel like I accomplished much, but my mother is not going to be happy I let
them in and rifle through our stuff. I'm also pretty sure they think I'm mentally disabled.

 

Sure, whole thing kind of felt demeaning actually, just listing off what I don't know, I think I found her social security number after they left, still couldn't find a more recent picture of her though. Now I'm wondering if I should bother them by calling it in or they'll look it up on their own.

 

주민등록번호. Yup, right there.

EDIT: They didn't need me at all.

 

So what happened? How did it go?

 

Tried to tell him I found the numbers, guy told me not to worry and that they'll take care of it.

You know I feel a lot calmer now than when I was waiting for mom at 3 in the morning, weird.

EDIT: The cops called, they found her and told me she had business she had to take care of that's going to keep her out of the house for a few days. Why she didn't tell me this in the first place I don't know, I may have been a bit sleep addled at the time but I'm pretty sure I remember her making no mention of this. At least now I can ask if I have an emergency contact when she gets back. False alarm guys, sorry for bothering you and thank you for your concerns.

This is going to end up growing into a boy who cried wolf situation isn't it?

 

Frankly she should give you emergency contacts for situations like this. Do you have them?

 

I don't know if I do? But there we go, it's over.