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The thrill of stealing away someone's significant other, the feeling of power of making someone who's already in a relationship fall for you, the fact that you're taking someone who's "off-limits".
Those are some of the things that make NTR a great fetish. IMO, at least.
I'd say, those fetishes all play on monogamous relationships: you only have sex with a partner you commit to when in a relationship. Love and sexual loyalty become one thing.
Of course, sexual attraction is not optimized for monogamy.
For a writer, that means there are a lot of tools in play. There's a betrayal in a relationship. There's either an unspoken hunger for something else, or a reconstruction of relationship structures. There's also the layering of people's relationships. And more.
For the person being cheated on, there's the mixed signals in terms of arousal and emotion. Person A is attracted to B, so there's always arousal. But remember that arousal isn't a part of the monogamy equation, so you're getting arousal despite emotional pain.
In a lot of ways it's another kind of D/S play, I think. It's the same sort of thing as "humiliating a hero-princess in front of the people she's trying to protect," that sort of power play.
There's also that sense of sadistic pleasure you get when the other guy finds out that the one he loves has left him for someone else, completely willingly, and breaks down.
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