*sigh* You're still not listening.
The fact it being used as a masculine pronoun has led to issues in policy due to gender based discrimination even in government?
Dude. THAT is the fault of gender based discrimination. Don't blame the word, blame the people responsible for the discrimination. The whole "all men are created equal" thing should, by your logic, have included black men as well as whites from day one of the US Constitution. How long did it take to correct *that* particular oversight? The answer is far, far too long. Same deal here. The word is, at best, an excuse used as a justification. And you should feel ashamed of yourself for using an ugly fact of human history in a discussion like this one. You're treading in Godwin's Law territory here.
you seem to contend it is a masculine pronoun at all
I... don't think you meant to use the word "contend" here. Since my stance has been pretty much the opposite. And I have never claimed 'he' is not a masculine pronoun. It is. But only sometimes. In the same way 'fawn' only sometimes means a young deer.
I simply point out the fact that it has another function. It's also the gender neutral pronoun most widely known and accepted in English as a language. And there's no need to change this. Much to the apparent hate of certain political forces.
"I'm marrying him" or "He paid his bills early that month" would get near everyone to assume they're talking about a male?
Well. The former example is clearly spoken by someone who knows his gender. I hope. I mean... how often does someone get married without knowing the gender of his spouse? I'm not saying it's
impossible, but if others simply assume he'd know his spouse's gender, then they (a plural here) would be perfectly justified in that assumption.
Therefor: of *course* you, rightfully, assume he's a man, based upon the fact that his presumably long term significant other just called him a 'he' instead of a 'she'. I could refer to the spouse as a
he as well, and be within grammatical correctness, since I don't know either of their sexes. Did so in the prior paragraph, in fact...
As for the latter. Depends on whose talking about 'him' paying the bills. Does our unknown gender 'he' know the person paying the bills? If so, then yes, we have every reason to assume he's speaking about a man. If not, then we don't know about the gender of the bill payer, and he is a perfectly valid gender neutral word to use.
"He" is an
unknown and/or undefined gender neutral. If you know his actual gender, you use that instead.
If what you're talking about has no automatic gender. Re: college professor you've never met and who has 'professor' listed as their name instead of Mister/Miss/etc... then you use 'he' as well. And can probably assume said professor is a little full of themselves.
In fact. That's an excellent example. "If you know his actual gender, you use that instead." I establish he's someone whose gender I don't know, and use the nongendered form of 'he' in the process. And there is no confusion. There you go.
you keep claiming the singular they is slang and that's a point against it
I keep saying it's slang because it is slang. Let's visit an online dictionary.
a type of language that consists of words and phrases that are
regarded as very informal, are
more common in speech than writing, and are
typically restricted to a particular context or group of people.
Yeah. Singular 'they' seems to fall into that overview.
But you're making things up about my opinions again. You should really stop doing that.
I don't consider it being slang to be a point against it at all, and never claimed otherwise. If you were paying attention at all to what I'm saying, instead of just reading it to look for ways to attack me, you'd know that. Some of my favorite words started as slang. In fact,
all words on Earth ever without exception started as slang. Or they're from conlangs that never become popular enough to even gain the status of 'slang'. There's nothing wrong with this at all.
The point against singular they is that it's sloppy, often confusing in grammar, making it numerically nonspecific opens up even more problems in the already messy blur between singular and plural in English... and it's already part of that whole they're/their/there mess. Plus it's the most common plural word in English, and has all those variants like 'them' which will bleed into singular if it gains support. All desire toward simplicity in language screams to avoid giving this word yet another function.
There's the overview of my problems with singular they. Its slang status is related only for the fact that it remains slang due to these listed issues. And I'm glad that it remains slang, again for those above reasons. But we've drifted into tangent territory. Discussing the merits and flaws of singular they is another conversation entirely. For here, it's enough to know that it's slang (which only means it's not widely accepted) and that I'm glad it's not widely accepted.